August 12, 2011

Norma Guerrero LaCara, May 17, 1935 - August 5, 2011

A week ago, my Aunt Norma passed away at her home, surrounded by her children and grandchildren.  She was diagnosed with glioblastoma multiforme in late March and was given a prognosis of 6-8 weeks.  According to Wikipedia, glioblastoma has the worst prognosis of any central nervous system malignancy, despite the many modes of treatment.  And, while the general prognosis is poor, with a median survival rate of approximately 14 months, Norma exceeded her prognosis by over two months.  


In the time between her diagnosis and death, several songs and prayers have provided solace and comfort to me.  One song, in particular, I listened to often and sang to my Aunt in her last days with us.  It's called "Lord of all hopefulness" by Jan Struther


Lord of All Hopefulness
lyrics: Jan Struther, 1901-1953

Lord of all hopefulness, Lord of all joy,
Whose trust, ever childlike, no cares can destroy,
Be there at our waking, and give us, we pray,
Your bliss in our hearts, Lord, at the break of the day.

Lord of all eagerness, Lord of all faith,
Whose strong hands were skilled at the plane and the lathe,
Be there at our labors, and give us, we pray,
Your strength in our hearts, Lord at the noon of the day.

Lord of all kindliness, Lord of all grace,
Your hands swift to welcome, your arms to embrace,
Be there at our homing, and give us, we pray,
Your love in our hearts, Lord, at the eve of the day.

Lord of all gentleness, Lord of all calm,
Whose voice is contentment, whose presence is balm,
Be there at our sleeping, and give us, we pray,
Your peace in our hearts, Lord, at the end of the day.



One of my Aunt's last gifts to us was bringing our family back together after years of separation, and I'll forever be grateful to her for that.  I love you and miss you, Auntie Norma.  Rest in eternal peace.